So, after long debates between Mark and I, we finally decided we would go ahead and tell our parents early. My sister already knew (see previous post), and I was dying to share the news with the most important people in our lives! Grandparents' Day was September 12th, so we made plans to see both sets of our parents over the weekend.
I bought cards for Grandparents' Day to give to each set of our parents. We went to the Hannas' House on Saturday night for dinner. After a delicious dinner, I went and got the card for them. I asked them if they knew what holiday Sunday was - they had no clue. I told them to go ahead and open the card, letting them know it was a day early for the holiday the next day. Mom H opened the card; confused, she said, "I think you meant to give this card to the Grandparents..." then her eyes opened really wide as she read, "Happy 1st Grandparents' Day, with love, Baby Hanna!" She got really excited and came over to feel the belly - of course there was nothing to actually feel yet, but who doesn't love touching a pregnant woman's belly? Dad H told us how proud he was and happy for us. A great reaction for the first time grandparents. :)
My parents, on the other hand, seemed a little more expectant of the news. We stopped by their house on our way home from Kings Dominion on Sunday with a similar Grandparents' Day card. My parents already have 5 grandkids, so it took them a little while to read through all the names before they got to "Baby Hanna." My mom smiled, handed the card to my dad, and let him read it before reacting. My dad said, "Well, thanks for telling us - we've known since last Sunday. When did you find out?" I have no idea how they had known for that long - Mark and I didn't even know until the previous Tuesday! I guess parents just know these things :) My mom had a dream that I was pregnant with a baby boy. I have no desire to find out before the baby is born. As long as little Susque is healthy, that is all that matters to me. Mark has always said he wanted to know as soon as possible, but I may just have him convinced that we are waiting! :-D
This past Thursday, we went to visit Mark's Grandparents - to share dinner and the big news! Mark's grandma, "Gah-gah" already seemed to know - she was very excited to hear the news, but her first words were "Really? I was hoping that's why you came over!" It will be their first great-grandchild! Very exciting night for all of us.
Today is 6 weeks. I can't believe I have 34 to go! I still somewhat feel like a "fake" pregnant lady, although today I had my first mini bought of nausea, and I think I'm starting to really show. Scary to think that most people don't start showing until 12 weeks or so, and I'm already bulging! My mom said that she was showing at 6 weeks with her first pregnancy, so maybe it's in my genes.... or maybe it's twins! :) haha, let's not go scaring Mark too much, now. Fraternal twins runs on both sides of my family (multiple sets, including my grandfather's brother and sister on my dad's side, and my great-grandmother on my mom's side), and the freakish coincidence that almost everyone in my row of townhouses has twin boys! I suppose we'll find out soon enough! If we have twins, I will slightly reconsider finding out the gender ahead of time. It's a lot of unknowns with twins not to be better prepared. We'll see!